November 4

Ryan brought work home on the weekend. He exercised and then he ate and then worked. Ali and Ryan were both interested in computers. They were so slow in the beginning, and no matter how fast they became, there was entirely too much time invested away from each other and instead on computers. Ali played with poetry while waiting for the baby. She couldn’t get flight information because there was no set day that everything would be settled. Instead of being nuts about waiting and instead of telling her husband, Ryan, what she was up to, she wrote poetry on the computer.  The green font on the black background was cause for eye strain, but she would learn this new technology.

Hug

A hug can be warm, safe, kind, and joyful.

Hugging, I glow.

Thinking of hugs, I twinkle.

When I twinkle and glow,

My mind is thoughtless and dreamy.

For a hug can change history in my life;

All ideas sweeten or fade inside a hug.

Hugging is loving someone

Enough to let yourself be loved.

A hug should be endless, yet renewed--

Not every day, nor every hour,

but every opportunity--unplanned.

I like our hug!

Our hug is a rug
For your feet
A rug is a hug
For your knees!
A beautiful house has rugs
Meditating hugs!


Our hug is a rug
For your feet
A rug is a hug
For your knees!
A beautiful house has rugs
A meditation in hugs!

Hugs, bugs, plugs, flugs, slugs
An incantation of ugs
For bringing out giggles and sliggles
A hug is sometimes huggly
Before turning into mugs
of hot liquid
warming our fingertips
down to our toes
hug in a rug.
Ali Babba!


Perfect Hug
There is no such thing
as a perfect kiss
Sans hug.
The wonderful kisses
do best within
a
hug.


Child, let me hug you.
You are so far away,
I haven’t met you
And yet I miss you.

Are your eyes like mine?
Do they twinkle?
Will you cry?
Are you afraid?
What is life like for you now?
Are you safe?
Will you love me back?
Will you be sorry you are with me instead of somewhere else?
There are so many questions.
Hurry, so I can meet you.

The next month while I am waiting, will I write about you?
When you come, we will plant a tree.
Maybe a very cold tolerant peach tree.
I will plan all of the things I would like to do with you.
This will help me wait for you, little one.
I will plan the name for you.
When I meet you, I will know you.
You will meet me and know me.
We will surprise each other.
Things won’t be easy with Daddy working so many hours.
He may not get used to you as fast as I do.

I don’t know when to tell him about your arrival.
Good night little child.
I wish we could have a family with 3 children.
How would Ryan being the Dad to 3 children?
Maybe it is time to talk.
Pillow talk tonight.

Ali booted off the computer, and told Ryan she was turning in early. She went to the bathroom and drew a bath while she got her black watch plaid flannel night gown. She slipped into the water and relaxed for 10 minutes. She heard the quiet tapping of Ryan’s computer, and the pages noise of being turned. The door was open, and the the candle lit. A small night light was on. She hummed. And then she reached for a towel, and pulled the drain plug. She stepped out of the tub and dried off on the towel. The night gown covered her fast and her slippers found her feet. She went to the bedroom and slipped under the covers. She decided to turn a light on and the radio beside the bed to some quiet music. And she hummed.

Before long, Ryan could not concentrate. He took a quick shower after booting off of his computer. He came bounding into the bedroom, with just the cutest tummy above his flannel plaid pajama bottoms. He slipped into the bed and reached for Ali in her flannel. She took her glasses off and closed the book twisting to place it on the night stand table while she was in his arms. He buried his nose in her hair, smelling her lotions and hair conditioner. He pulled her hair gently and sighed.

“I live for this, Ali.”
“And I wait for this, Ryan. I am glad I remembered this. It is a really good reason to come to bed earlier.”
“Ali, tell me about your day.’
“Ryan, I don’t want to wait for a baby to come naturally. I am in remission, and I want to live today, and not 10 years down the road.”
“So what do you want to do, Ali?”
“Ryan, I want us to adopt a child. And I want to adopt sooner than later.”
“Ali, I work so many hours. That won’t be fair to you and the child.”
“Ryan, do you know how many men are gone to work all the time, and how many women are alone raising a child? It won’t be the first time. But if we don’t have a child, then you will never find out if you might be attracted to a family. If it will help, we will go through parenting classes.”
“So when are you thinking of adopting, Ali?”
“I said soon, Ryan. So in six months or maybe a month?”
“Where is the paperwork? I will fill it out during lunch this week.”
“You don’t need to Ryan. I filled it out already. I did it perfectly. I don’t know if we will get a girl or a boy, or both.”
“This hurts my feelings that you didn’t come to me before filling out the paperwork.”
“I know, Ryan, but think about it. If you said no, then what could I have done? If you are into power over me, then you can nullify the contract. You won’t get the money back, and something we have together will change.”
“You are really gambling ‘us’ Ali for this.”
“Ryan, I spend too much time alone, and I want a completed life. Not one of waiting forever. If we luck out and have children from our bodies, well great. But when? I just don’t want to wait any longer. Give me reasons to wait, Ryan!”
“Ali,