Has anyone struggled to find a speaker for school or church or Rotary?

    Yes, sometimes I speak. I was an adjunct faculty member at Mercer University for more than 4 years, a preschool teacher, a substitute teacher, a chaplain, and a visiting minister to several churches. I am an ordained Southern Baptist minister who preached in many hospitals and nursing homes and never in a Southern Baptist church. They never asked me and I am not forward. 

I would like to speak about the Buddy System. It is a game changer.  So far everything that revolves around men teaches men the Buddy System. Nothing that revolves around women teaches/pushes/stresses/requires a Buddy System. 

I have ideas about how to change that. Ask me to be a speaker. My fee is any donation people will give when asked!!! I have been promised donations and then no one was asked to donate and I received nothing for my time and effort. I want a better outcome for something that needs more exposure. What could I do with resources? Give me a list and I will tell you how to change the game so women are safer.