If you don't write it down, it didn't happen and trauma

I just met a lawyer who said that because he tells his wife not to go on the Silver Comet Trail, the cues are there for women no matter how much more men have it in print than women.

If you don't write it down, it didn't happen. . . .

Look on Google for how many times women have "Buddy System" in writing and compare it to the hunters, military, police, sky diving, scuba diving and all that men do. Compare it statistically and as though you are an accountant.

Domestic Violence in church  What happens when you find there is traumatized people in your church? Is there a Buddy System in your church? Christian Century dot org  "Trauma Survivors are your congregation: How are you going to help them heal?" https://www.christiancentury.org/review/books/trauma-survivors-are-your-congregation-how-will-you-help-them-heal